Psalm 1:6 For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish.
Psalm 5:8 Lead me, O LORD, in your righteousness because of my enemies— make straight your way before me.
Psalm 18:21 For I have kept the ways of the LORD; I have not done evil by turning from my God.
Psalm 18:30 As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in him.
Psalm 25:4 Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths;
Psalm 25:7 Remember not the sins of my youth and my rebellious ways; according to your love remember me, for you are good, O LORD.
Psalm 25:8 Good and upright is the LORD; therefore he instructs sinners in his ways.
Psalm 25:10 All the ways of the LORD are loving and faithful for those who keep the demands of his covenant.
Psalm 25:12 Who, then, is the man that fears the LORD ? He will instruct him in the way chosen for him.
Psalm 27:11 Teach me your way, O LORD; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors.
Psalm 37:5 Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this:
Psalm 37:23 If the LORD delights in a man's way, he makes his steps firm;
Psalm 37:34 Wait for the LORD and keep his way. He will exalt you to inherit the land; when the wicked are cut off, you will see it.
Psalm 86:11 Teach me your way, O LORD, and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name.
Psalm 119:1 [ ' Aleph ] Blessed are they whose ways are blameless, who walk according to the law of the LORD.
Psalm 128:1 [ A song of ascents. ] Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in his ways.
Psalm 138:5 May they sing of the ways of the LORD, for the glory of the LORD is great.
Psalm 145:17 The LORD is righteous in all his ways and loving toward all he has made.
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Thursday, August 30, 2007
-"Home"-
Another summer day Has come and gone away In Paris and Rome But I wanna go home Mmmmmmmm
Maybe surrounded by A million people I Still feel all alone I just wanna go home Oh, I miss you, you know
And I’ve been keeping all the letters that I wrote to you Each one a line or two “I’m fine baby, how are you?” Well I would send them but I know that it’s just not enough My words were cold and flat And you deserve more than that
Another aeroplane Another sunny place I’m lucky I know But I wanna go home Mmmm, I’ve got to go home
Let me go home I’m just too far from where you are I wanna come home
And I feel just like I’m living someone else’s life It’s like I just stepped outside When everything was going right And I know just why you could not Come along with me 'Cause this was not your dream But you always believed in me
Another winter day has come And gone away In even Paris and Rome And I wanna go home Let me go home
And I’m surrounded by A million people I Still feel all alone Oh, let me go home Oh, I miss you, you know
Let me go home I’ve had my run Baby, I’m done I gotta go home Let me go home It will all be all right I’ll be home tonight I’m coming back home
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Wednesday, August 29, 2007
-Sexual Purity: What You Need to Know-
Sexual Purity: What You Need to Know
by Randy Alcorn
"It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God." (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)
When it comes to sexual purity, we don't have to wonder what God's will is. Scripture tells us straight out. His expectations of his children are much higher than for those who don't know him.
In light of the critical importance of sexual purity, I've developed the following material and presented it to many young people and their parents over the last fifteen years.
In the past five years I've honed it further for sharing and discussion with my own teenage daughters and the young men who have asked to date them. Until we have gone over these principles together (my wife and I, our daughter and the young man) and made sure there is complete agreement, we don't allow a dating relationship to begin.
We have found this is a great help not only to our daughters but to the young men wanting to date them. We make our expectations clear, give them specific guidance and principles (not just rules), and tell them we'll be asking them if they are living up to these standards. This deepens our relationship, opens communication and creates healthy accountability.
Though there are sometimes nervous jitters as family members (and especially the young men) anticipate these sessions, in each case the time together has been strategic, encouraging and rewarding. Having practiced this these last five years, it is impossible for us and for our daughters to imagine them dating a young man without first openly addressing with him all the principles that follow. (Each time we do this, of course, it further reinforces these principles for our daughters and for us.)
While this material is specifically geared to teenagers and those in potential dating relationships, the biblical principles apply to people of all ages, and the practical guidelines are helpful for many people in different life situations as well. I hope you find them helpful in your own life and with your children. Feel free to use this material and pass it on as you wish.
Sexual Purity: What You Need to Know
1. Sex is good. God created it, God called it "good," and it existed before there was any sin in the world.
Sex was not created by Satan, Larry Flynt, Playboy, Hollywood, HBO, rock musicians, the Internet, or some pervert lurking in the shadows of a porno shop. Sex was created by the holy God of heaven, where purity reigns.
God made sex physically desirable by creating us with sex drives, without which sex wouldn't exist and neither would people. God's Word speaks openly of the pleasure of sex (Proverbs 5:18,19; Song of Solomon 4:5; 7:1, 6-9).
We shouldn't be ashamed to talk about what God wasn't ashamed to create. However, when we do talk about it, God demands that we address the subject in terms of his intentions and requirements, not the world's. He designed sex for the sacred union of marriage, and reserves it for that union. It is both the means by which children are conceived (something very close to God's heart) and a means by which marital intimacy is expressed and cultivated. When it takes place in its proper context, God is definitely pro-sex.
2. Like all good gifts from God, sex can be misused and perverted.
Water is a gift of God, without which we couldn't survive. But floods and tidal waves are water out of control, and the effects are devastating. Fire is an energy-producing gift of God that gives warmth and allows us to cook. But a forest fire or a house burning to the ground or a person engulfed in flames is fire out of control - it is horrible and frightening. Water and fire are good things which, when they occur outside their God-intended boundaries, become bad.
Likewise, God designed sex to exist within certain boundaries. When exercised in line with God's intended purpose, it is beautiful and constructive. When out of control, violating God's intended purpose, it becomes ugly and destructive. Sex is a good thing which, when it occurs outside its God-designed boundaries, becomes bad. The problem isn't sex - the problem is us. We're sinners who can pervert, abuse, and rip away from their proper place the good things God created. The greater the gift from God, the more power it has both for good and bad.
3. The boundaries of sex are the boundaries of marriage.
Sex and marriage go together. Sexual union is intended as an expression of a commitment, a symbol of the spiritual union that exists only within the unconditional commitment of marriage. Apart from marriage, the lasting commitment is absent and the sex act becomes a false expression, a lie. Every act of sex outside of marriage cheapens both sex and marriage. Sex is a privilege inseparable from the responsibilities of marriage. To exercise the privilege apart from the responsibility perverts God's intention both for sex and for marriage. Sex is designed to be the joining of two persons, of two spirits, not just two bodies. Sex should be giving to someone to whom I'm 100% committed (as measured by the state of legal marriage), not taking from someone to whom I'm uncommitted or partially committed. "But we really love each other" has no bearing on the ethics of sexual intimacy - sex does not become permissible through subjective feelings, but through the objective lifelong commitment of marriage.
4. Your sexual purity is essential to your walk with God.
Sexual purity is not an option for an obedient Christian, it's a requirement. God's will is centered on our character and moral purity much more than on our circumstances, such as job, housing and schooling. You want to know God's will? You don't have to wonder. Here it is: "It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3). There is no sense seeking God's will in other areas when you are choosing to live in sexual impurity in your mind or body.
"Who may ascend the hill of the LORD? Who may stand in his holy place? He who has clean hands and a pure heart." (Psalm 24:3-4)
"If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened." (Psalm 66:18)
"If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law, even his prayers are detestable." (Proverbs 28:9)
"'When I called, they did not listen; so when they called, I would not listen,' says the LORD Almighty." (Zechariah 7:13)
Sexual purity is inseparable from a committed Christian life. If you are not living in sexual purity, God will not hear your other prayers until you offer the prayer of confession and repentance and commit yourself to a life of holiness.
5. You are vulnerable to sexual immorality.
Don't kid yourself that it can never happen to you - it can. And if you don't think it can, it almost certainly will.
"Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall." (Proverbs 16:18)
"So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall!" (1 Corinthians 10:12)
"Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin...watch yourself, or you also may be tempted." (Galatians 6:1)
If you think you'll never be burglarized, you'll fail to take precautions to keep it from happening. If you think you'll never fall sexually, you'll fail to take precautions to keep it from happening.
6. You are targeted for sexual immorality.
Years ago there was scuttlebutt concerning an international "hit list," a calculated plan for paid assassins to murder strategic world leaders. The Enemy, Satan, has maintained a spiritual and moral "hit list" throughout the ages. Since God's children are close to God's heart, Christians are at the very top of that list. The more involved you are in ministry, the greater vested interests Satan has in destroying you and God's work in and through you. God requires that we be holy and pure instruments to be used by him (2 Timothy 2:20-21). More Christians (including Christian leaders) are lost to serving Christ due to sexual immorality than anything else. (See my booklet Sexual Temptation: How Christian Workers can Win the Battle.)
This means that the forces of evil have taken out a contract on you. There is a price on your head. Satan has declared war on you: "Our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers of darkness, against spiritual forces of evil in the invisible realm" (Ephesians 6:12). These evil beings have vested interests in your moral collapse. They will do everything in their power to strike out at Christ and his church through enticing you into immorality.
Satan is neither omnipresent nor omnipotent - there are only so many demons and none of them can be two places at once. Therefore, fallen angels attack and tempt not indiscriminately but with strategic purpose. Satan does not have to waste his time on those who have already made the biggest messes of their lives. Rather, he specially targets those whose fall would have the greatest negative effect on the kingdom of God. That's why God's Word warns Christians:
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour" (1 Peter 5:8).
The devil wants to derail you from serving God. He wants you imprisoned to sin. God wants you free. Only by exercising self-control and being on alert can we expect to resist the enemy's plan to lead us into sin. Satan "scouts us out" and knows only too well the chinks in the armor of every Christian. His aim is deadly, he excels at tailor-made temptations, and it is at our points of greatest vulnerability that he will attack. Don't forget, though, that "the one [Christ] who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world" (1 John 4:4). As powerful as the evil one is to tempt us, God is infinitely more powerful to deliver us.
7. Your body belongs to God, not you.
"You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body" (I Corinthians 6:20).
If it's my house, I have the right to do what I want with it. If it's someone else's, I don't. Sometimes when I'm speaking I ask to borrow a pencil from someone in the audience. Then I break it in half, throw it to the floor and stomp on it. There's always a wide-eyed silence and expressions of shock and discomfort in the audience. I ask them why they're bothered by what I've done, why they think I did something wrong, and someone always says "because it wasn't your pencil." I then explain that it really was my pencil, that I gave it to the person ahead of time and asked her to hand it to me when I called on her. Suddenly it changes everything, because if it belongs to me, then (and only then) do I have the right to do with it as I please. If it belongs to someone else, I have no such right.
When you came to Christ, when you affirmed him as Lord of your life, you surrendered your entire self, including your body, to God. Christ owns you and your body. You are bought and paid for. "Your body" is really his body. He paid the ultimate price for it. What price? The shed blood of God Almighty! We are his both by virtue of his creation and his redemption. God has every right to tell me what to do with my mind and body. I have no right to do with it what I want instead.
8. Sexual purity begins in the mind, not the body.
"As a man thinks in his heart, so is he" (Proverbs 23:7).
"For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality..." (Matthew 15:19-20).
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28).
You will inevitably adopt the morality of the programs, movies, books, magazines, music, Internet sites and conversations you participate in. GIGO - Garbage in, garbage out; Godliness in, godliness out. The cognitive is basic to the behavioral - you become what you choose to feed your mind on.
Sow a thought, reap an action; Sow an action, reap a habit. Sow a habit, reap a character. Sow a character, reap a destiny.
Your future can be accurately predicted by what you allow your mind to dwell on. Sinful actions don't come out of nowhere - they are the cumulative product of little moral compromises made over time, which ultimately culminate in ungodly behavior.
There's nothing new about sexual temptation - what's new is how it has invaded our homes. In first century Corinth there were prostitutes all over the streets, but when you entered your home you had a sanctuary from the temptation. We live in a technological Corinth, where immorality can come into the privacy of our home through airwaves (television) and modems (the Internet). Most of us are only a few pushbuttons away from sexual immorality of the mind. Every choice we make to view and contemplate immorality desensitizes us to its evil.
Actions, habits, character and destiny all start with a thought, and thoughts are fostered by what we choose to take into our minds. Therefore we should take extreme care about what we feed our minds on.
"Above all else, guard your heart [mind, inner being], for it is the wellspring of life" (Proverbs 4:23).
If someone wants to pollute water, he pollutes it at its source. If he wants to purify water, he purifies it at its source. Our thoughts are the source of our lives. All our lives flow from our mind, and through the choices we make every day we program our minds, either for godliness or ungodliness.
"Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life according to your word" (Psalm 119:37)
Our minds are not a vacuum - they will be filled with something. It is necessary to turn our minds from the worthless, but it's not sufficient. We also must fill our minds with good thoughts that crowd out and combat the bad ones. It's not enough to say "don't think about anything bad." (If I say, "don't think about spiders," what do you think about?) We must also choose to think about the good. (If I say "think about your favorite dessert," pretty soon you stop thinking about spiders.) Time in the Word, in prayer, and in conversations with Christ-centered friends reinforces our commitment to purity.
"Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure... think about such things" (Philippians 4:8).
We cannot avoid every temptation, but we can avoid many of them, and we can certainly resist their attempts to take hold of us. Martin Luther said, "You can't keep the birds from flying over your head, but you can keep them from making a nest in your hair."
Your body will go where your mind allows it to. When it comes to your sexual purity, the ultimate battle is in your mind. Don't give your mind junk food. Be sure you're getting spiritual nutrition.
9. Since God doesn't want you to have premarital sex, neither does he want you to do that which prepares your body for premarital sex.
"How far can I go?" This is a common question, but it isn't the best question because usually it means "how close can I get to disobeying God without actually doing it?" If a parent tells his child "Don't step out on the freeway," an obedient child won't go dangle his leg over the freeway, he'll stay far away from it. By putting himself close to the freeway, he subjects himself to unnecessary temptation to act on his impulses, disobey and put himself in grave danger.
God made the body and mind with sex drives, and as those drives are stimulated they move toward a climax - this is a simple fact of life that no one should be naive about. Caressing each other in sexually stimulating ways is foreplay, and foreplay is designed by God to culminate in sexual intercourse. Since intercourse is forbidden outside marriage, so is foreplay. Since sexual intercourse before marriage is wrong, it is also wrong to engage in activity that propels mind and body toward sexual intercourse.
"Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." (2 Timothy 2:22)
There is a continuum of physical contact that begins with things like sitting close and hand-holding on the near side and graduates (or, rather, degenerates) to sexual intercourse on the far side. In between might be a brief hug, a kiss on the cheek, a kiss on the mouth, a longer hug, fondling, etc. Scripture does not spell out exactly what "intermediate" behavior is permissible, but one thing is certain - the line must be drawn before either of you becomes sexually stimulated. This means that fondling - and anything else that results in a "turn on" - is forbidden.
If one of you begins to be stimulated even by an apparently innocent physical contact, then both of you should back off immediately. If you don't back off, you are choosing to stay on a canoe headed toward a waterfall. This is not just wrong, it's stupid. (Those who allow their minds to dwell on what's immoral and who engage in sexual stimulation together shouldn't be surprised when they have sexual intercourse. It's simply the natural result of the choices they've made. If you want a different outcome, you must make different choices.)
Guys are more quickly and easily stimulated than girls. A girl often thinks extended kisses and hugs are fine, na•ve to the fact that the guy is sexually stimulated and is tempted to push for more. Again, make sure you draw the line far enough back that neither of you crosses it.
10. Once you let your body cross the line, it will neither know nor care about your Christian convictions.
Some Christians pray God will protect their purity, then willfully put themselves into temptation and wonder why God didn't answer their prayer. This is like putting a book at the corner of a table and praying "God please don't let this book fall," when all the while you keep pushing it further and further off the edge. No matter how fervently you pray that the book won't fall, it will fall if you continue to choose to push it. No matter how fervently you pray that you will not fall into immorality, you will fall if you continue to make choices that feed your temptation toward immorality. Don't allow your choices to undermine and invalidate your prayers.
11. If you have sexual intimacy with someone outside marriage, you are stealing from God and the other person.
Since he or she belongs to God, not you, that means you are borrowing this person for the evening. Be careful what you do with what doesn't belong to you. You'll be held accountable to his or her Owner.
12. God has your best interests in mind when he tells you not to have premarital sex.
What's right is always smart, and always for your good. Sex is not just something you do - sex is someone you are. It is linked to the welfare of your whole person.
Having sex outside of marriage is self-destructive in every sense. Sexual purity is always for the best - not only for God and others, but for you.
13. God would not tell you to abstain from impurity if it was impossible to obey him.
God is not cruel. He doesn't command you to abstain from necessities, such as eating or drinking or breathing. Sex is something everyone can abstain from—it is a strong desire, yes, but never an emergency, never a necessity. Christ has given us the resources to resist every temptation:
"The grace of God teaches us to say 'No' to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age" (Titus 2:12).
"His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires" (2 Peter 1:3-4).
You do not have to watch that video. You can turn it off, walk out, go in the other room. You don't have to click on that link to an ungodly website. You don't have to fondle the person you're dating. You can and should draw upon your resources in Christ, and say "no" to temptations to sin.
14. You must learn to think long term, not short term. Good or bad, you will always reap what you sow—you will always harvest the consequences of your choices.
"Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." (Galatians 6:7-9)
It doesn't matter how smart you think you are. It doesn't matter whether you have a Ph.D. in physics, if you step off the tenth story of a building, you will fall to your death. Gravity is law - there's just no getting around it. Likewise, God has set up spiritual laws that govern the universe, including laws concerning our sexual behavior. If we break his commandments, ultimately we get broken.
Scripture teaches two basic alternatives in life, the way of God and the way of men, the way of holiness and the way of sin. Proverbs speaks of the path of wisdom and the path of foolishness, and calls upon us to make right choices, which are also wise, and avoid wrong choices, which are also foolish. After laying out the blessings of obedience and the curses of disobedience, God said, "This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live" (Deut. 30:19).
The lifelong consequences of sexual impurity are worse than we can imagine. The lifelong rewards of sexual purity are greater than we can imagine.
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Wednesday, August 15, 2007
-Poor wayfaring stranger.. *SONG onli*-
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Tuesday, August 14, 2007
-A great secret-
It is a bad world, an incredibly bad world. But I have discovered in the midst of it a quiet and holy people who have learned a great secret. They have found a joy that is a thousand times better than any pleasure of our sinful life. They are despised and persecuted, but they care not. They are masters of their souls. They have overcome the world. These people are the Christians - and I am one of them. Saint Cyprian (200-258)
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Monday, August 06, 2007
-Jeremiah 2:13-
Jeremiah 2:13 My people have committed two sins: they have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water.
Matthew Henry's commentary on Jeremiah 2:13. I believe you will profit from reading it:
There is in Him an all-sufficiency of grace and strength; all our springs are in Him and our streams from him; to forsake Him is, in effect, to deny this. He has been to us a bountiful benefactor, a fountain of living waters, overflowing, ever flowing, in the gifts of his favor; to forsake Him is to refuse to acknowledge His kindness and to withhold that tribute of love and praise which His kindness calls for. Those who forsake Him cheat themselves, they forsook their own mercies, but it was for lying vanities. They took a great deal of pains to hew themselves out cisterns, to dig pits or pools in the earth or rock which they would carry water to, or which should receive the rain; but they proved broken cisterns, false at the bottom, so that they could hold no water. When they came to quench their thirst there they found nothing but mud and mire, and the filthy sediments of a standing lake. Such idols were to their worshippers, and such a change did those experience who turned from God to them. If we make an idol of any creature - wealth, or pleasure, or honor, if we place our happiness in it, and promise ourselves the comfort and satisfaction in it which are to be had in God only, if we make it our joy and love, our hope and confidence, we shall find it a cistern, which we take a great deal of pains to hew out and fill, and at the best it will hold but a little water, and that dead and flat, and soon corrupting and becoming nauseous. No, it is a broken cistern, which cracks and cleaves in hot weather, so that the water is lost when we have most need of it. Let us therefore with purpose of heart cleave to the Lord only, for where else shall we go? He has the words of eternal life.
What are you filling with your broken cistern? Or are you drinking for god?
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Friday, August 03, 2007
-Recent Question and Answer By John Oakes-
Had a bible study recently and my friend posted a question where I don't know how to answer properly. So go and do some research. Ha. So I emailed Brother John Oakes. :) Hope you can learned something for the reply. Amen to god be the glory
2 Timothy 4:2 Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.
1 Peter 3:15But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
Hi bro,;I'm a disciple from Singapore and come of know of this site when you came here. I tried googling but can't find any great answers so I came to your great site. :);I've been trying to study bible with my friend and he's asking me some questions about adam. If Adam and Eve were the first human alive, so who did their son marry to populate the earth? If they did marry their own brother and sister (which I feel is the case because the bible say adam had other sons and daughters), science say the offspring from marrying your own physical brother or sister will high chance be abnormal. So why do I explain this? I know you must have this somewhere in your website but I can't find it. :);Thanks bro,;Love,;Dewey
Dewey;
You are right that an answer to this question is found at my web site. I am cutting and pasting to save you time.
Go to the bottom for some additional comments.
J. O.
Friday, May 6, 2005 Where did Cain's wife come from in Genesis 4?
Where did Cain's wife come from in Genesis 4?
This is a fairly common question. I have only seen only one reasonable explanation which does not require bending the biblical text. That is to assume that Adam and Eve had a great number of children and that Cain married one of them. Clearly if there were only one man and woman created by God, then their children would have to intermarry.
This explanation may bother a person who is used to the idea that incest (which would clearly include sex with a sibling) is bad. Attempts to explain why God does what he does can cause one to skate on thin ice, but let me speculate why God "changed his mind" on the incest issue. The fact is that there is a significantly increased risk of a great number of genetically-linked diseases for children of closely related parents. This may explain God's admonition that incest is a sin. God is protecting us from serious disease. One can assume that Adam and Eve were created without genetic defects, which would allow their children to intermarry without fear of inducing genetic-related diseases in their children. Over the thousands of years since the original couple, a good number of mutations which have led to genetic diseases have entered the human population, making it quite dangerous to marry close relatives.
So the answer to the question you ask is that Cain married one of his sisters. One possible answer to the question you did not ask, but which you surely have in mind is that what applies to us did not apply to the children of Adam and Eve. Incest is dangerous for us but was not for them.
John Oakes, PhD
Here is another relevant Q & A:
Who was Cain afraid of? What about giants and cherubim?
In the opening chapters of Genesis, the Bible says that Cain was afraid of others who might take vengeance upon him. Where did these people come from??? They could not have been his brothers for there is hardly enough time for procreation to have resulted in a population large enough for Cain to be concerned of this. Also, the same chapters make reference to cherubim and giants and other mythical beings. Doesn't this show that the Bible is wrong if it is referencing creatures that did not exist?
You ask at least three questions here, so let me take one on at a time. First, the Bible describes each of the early generations of descendents of Adam and Eve living for several hundreds of years. If one can assume that this is true, then Adam and Eve could have had dozens of children, each of whom could have had dozens of children and so forth. Doing a little math based on this assumptions leads to the possibility that by the time Cain and Abel were, say, three hundred years old, there might have been thousands of direct descendants of Adam and Eve. Of course, you will have to decide on the inspiration of the Bible for yourself, but for one who simply accepts the accuracy of the statements in the Bible concerning the age of the early humans, the question is answered fairly easily.
Some have proposed as an alternative explanation that Adam and Eve were not the first people, but were the first ones to have a soul and spirit, and therefore to be the first humans in the spiritual sense. That would explain the statements in Genesis about Cain you ask. In my opinion, this is not likely to be an accurate interpretation of Genesis, as it seems, at least on the face of it, to be a contradiction of the obvious literal sense of Genesis, but I do not absolutely rule it out, trying to remain open-minded.
Cherubim, as described by the Bible are angels, not people. They are spiritual beings. To be honest, I cannot prove the existence of angels as a scientist, but I accept their reality simply because they are described in the Bible which I have accepted, based on extremely solid evidence, to be the inspired word of God. I believe in angels, basically, on faith in the Bible. The giants described in Genesis may simply be very large people. Goliath was about eight or nine feet tall, and is described as a giant in 1 Samuel. It is possible that "giants" in the book of Genesis are a separate race of peoples, but I personally do not believe this is the case. I certainly do not believe that Genesis is a myth. It meets several criteria for being inspired scripture based on my personal study. I will leave it to you to look at the evidence for inspiration of the Bible, and especially of the book of Genesis. At this web site, you will find a lot of that. I suggest you go to the section of articles labeled "Bible" as a beginning point for discussing the evidence for inspiration. I believe that, contrary to many intellectuals beliefs. the Bible is the Word of God and is definitely not myth. Of course, it is your right and privledge to reach your own conclusion on this particular question, but that is how I see it.
John Oakes, PhD
Dewey;
Like I say above, I do not believe that incest is inherently sinful, but that there are two reasons God outlawed it in the OT. 1. Because for us genetically mutated people, marriage with very close relatives is dangerous to health. 2. Incest is very closely associated with sexual abuse in a large percentage of cases.
So, it is not unreasonable that for very early man, God did not outlaw incest.
I cannot absolutely rule out the alternative alluded to above. I cannot disprove beyond a doubt that Adam and Ever were created as people with a soul, in God's image, etc... in a world which already had intelligent, evolved, non-accountable homo sapiens. This is not the explanation I personally prefer, but I feel I cannot exclude it from possibility. In other words, when God breathed his nature--his image--into people it transformed rather than created human beings. This is certainly not a salvation issue. You ought to reach your own conclusion.
John Oakes
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